hitting 25..

just completed yet another flying visit home..yet again coming back wid feelings of nostalgia...was teni's wedding dis time round...a whole lotta fun catching up wid the whole family...been ages since the 5 of us plus alex, and the kids made ne trips together newhr as a family together...cant even re-call the last time that happened in fact...have to really scroll back the years to do that..

had an even rarer thing occur when i spent so much time wid the bro...now that definitely was a first...of course a bit forced considering that no 1 else was ard and b-coz we did drive back to bombay together but even then i never re-call ever having such a long or eased out conversation...

was also nice to remember several events from the past and re-calling all the cousins and ppl who have played their part in specific times of my life shaping me for who i am in in whatever positive and negative connotations...Ganha, Nadi, Nigel, Heist, Nunu, Michael, Rance,Velva, Suck, Cavin...its amazing what a huge freaking family i have...was also remembering the mother's side and re-calling all the folks who arent that visible any more like Alice and her sisters

one of the most endearing moments this weekend was when in Ponda, the 7 sisters and the rest were all singing songs in wishing good luck to the newly married couple...that really rolled back the years and also of course watching dada and mama singing etc...

years have really rolled by...all dis kids have already completed grad and are even working..!! Clinton, Alroy, Cleona, Beloris...wow...

its been an easy ride so far...the goals were well defined...study hard..do well in exams,,,worked towards completing engg and then the MBA to get a gud job...now that i am in a job , need to re-define my goals and aspirations again...do i wanna stick ard and aim for the presidency, so i search hard core and go back to the roots, do i wanna settle here or there...takin care of the ageing folks, curing a bit of the loneliness that arises now and then ...etc..etc...its time to set and or re-define priorities ..... The Quarter life crisis is well and truly on!!